“…The kintsugi method conveys a philosophy not of replacement, but of awe, reverence, and restoration. The gold-filled cracks of a once-broken item are a testament to its history. The importance in kintsugi is not the physical appearance, it is the beauty and the importance that stays in the one who is looking at the dish…”(unknown author)
I love this.
I am laying here as I reflect upon my upcoming engagement party today. I’m thinking about how I got to here and now.
I have been in a few strong relationships in my years and even though they felt right at the time, they ended in heartache. Sometimes it was me who did the heart breaking and sometimes it was I who suffered.
It made me better, though. Just like the kintsugi method; broken but filled with gold.
You see, throughout my 30+ years, I have longed for a beautiful connection with a significant other who could stand the test of time. I had glimpses of it and fragments as well. I was SO certain once or twice with it only to end and now a distant memory.
But guess what? That’s ok. That was my path which led me to where I am today…about to embark on the great journey of marriage and setting up for a party to celebrate our love.
I’m happy with my golden brokenness. The gold is beautiful and soft yet durable. Pain truly can become art.
Remember, my beautiful friends…life is working for you and with you. Do not resist the flow. We are meant to progress.
Enjoy your beautiful brokenness.